We told our daughter

She 17 and we talk alot. She kinda thought hubby and i had something going on, more don’t ask don’t tell. but her “i wanna be like dad and mom” fairytale, is a little dented but shes said shes okay with it. She understands how me being a mom at 16 and hubby being a stick in the mud leaves me wanting more in life and shes glad it works for us. She said she understands all the advice I’ve given a little better now. she wants things to stay respectfully hushed seeing anything more than a hug would bother her. i appreciated her telling me that. But shes not ashamed because hubby and i are happy. And she noticeably sees how it improves me in general. She is pissed her older brother knew before her.(other issues unrelated got talked about in that mess) But i told he out right asked me. She and i had a nice heart to heart talk while at er last night i told hubby i think shes ready to know. He was more than ready to tell her already. She knows im going to be going to sf with bf next week. I told her i wont be posting cheesy kissing pics on social media.

I feel so much better with her knowing.p