Noobs

Talking to a new to poly guy i really am crushing hard on. Him and his wife are working out what works for them.… Im trying to be very patient with him and her. I majorly respect both of them. However i need them to have some clearer lines & bounderies drawn so i dont feel like i am having the door slammed in my face because they need space to talk out things. It sucks opening up and then left questioning who, what or when will the plug be pulled on things. If i hadn’t met his wife before, id swear he was lying about being poly. As so many guys do &have . I was once told;

“Im not dating your husband im dating you”

That felt so mean when Said to me but currently makes so much since. STILL NOT my approach too much respect i have.

Patience isnt my strong suit, but i gots a crush.