Labels…

I have a conversation that i need to have. And im not scared or worried about its out come, for a change.

Labels provide me with language & terminology that easily allows me & others to understand where or what exactly my relationship with someone is. it lets me know that we are equally invested in what ever we are doing. clear lines lol {there seems to be a pattern here} It also give me a since of comfort and securities that we are both* on the same page. (*both can also include primary partners thoughts)

I feel labels should be applied after all parties involved have discussed what exactly those labels mean to them and agree on the accuracy of them. A lack of communication on the label can really hurt someone. misunderstanding the importance or involvement one expects or wants with labels.
Bottom line, make sure your labels are accurate for everyone and your intentions are clear.