Boxes

Sometimes how we categorize things adds to the frustion because we often have expections of those categories no matter how hard we try to avoid expections. I find more often than not those expections really are just wants of How I want things to be.

When I change the way I view something, it makes dealing with how i feel about it easier. I dont have to quit, or give up, to change the box something’s in. Just re think it. Regroup what I want from it.

In both my polyam dating life, my childhood of abuse, and my everyday family life. It’s a coping skill.