Pocket.Poly

4 years ago we took in a 16 y.o boy. Broken home. He became family. Goal driven.
Helping him finish HS, start college an hr away w/o drivers license under 18 on a football scholarship, support him on his many random learn to fly endeavors, and helping when he crashed. We treated him like our own…

Aug. He made a chain of choices that had him w/o warning up and leave, disowning and blocking everyone. Including our extended friends & family. Its been almost 5 mths with nothing and tonight i got a text. Fallowed by a phone call.

My heart hurts. I loved this young man as my own child. He hurt everyone in this family with his choices 2 different times and wants forgiveness a 3rd time.

I raised him and my others your word is only as good as the truth you put behind it and efforts made to keep it.
He has failed at being the man he wanted to be when it comes to us. We were used as a steping stone, discarded and now hes missing having a family, now that he is trying to make his own.

Hubby is done.
Daughters are done.
I wont let him see my lil guy because he didn’t understand and just stopped asking about him.
I am heart broken. But i can not under the track record provided let him back in to our lives. Its not fair to us. But as a mom who loved him as my own……. my heart hurts.