People act like breaking up when your polyamorous must be so much easier because you don’t become single. Look, yes I still have a partner to love and support me, but it still hurts to break up. The blow isn’t lessened by having someone else who loves me. When you get broken up with, mono or polyam, your heart still breaks, you still cry, it still hurts. Heartbreaks don’t hurt because your single, heartbreaks hurt because someone you love has informed you you two aren’t together anymore. They hurt because someone you love doesn’t love you. They hurt because someone you love leaves your life forever. Break ups aren’t easier when your polyamorous. They’re still miserable.
Tragic it is that I still love you, even though I know that I can never again have you.
Tragedy//Conee Berdera (via remanence-of-love)
As long as I learn something…. it’s not wasted.
Perpetual Commotion 