I believe that trust is more important than monogamy
My ♘
I dont talk about my primary live partner often but he and i have been together 15 years and I have been poly for maybe 8 years. He is mono by his choice.
We talked alot over the years about how i have always been poly but never understood or knew it was a possibility or even healthy.
We haven’t told the kids yet. Mainly because failed monogamy in my teen years is what i feel helped me understand what i want and need.
As for dating…. I had a long term 3 yr thing that ended last march… Nothings stuck since
one thing that has stuck I love my lion with every fiber of my body and soul. He has taught me. Unconditional love like no other.
Biggest annoyance in dating
Asking a person what they like to do for fun and getting the answer:
“I don’t know”
Like… for fuck sake… why don’t people know anything about themselves?
11/23/16
What the fuck am I doing? What. The. Fuck? I think I may have lost my mind. This has to be what addiction feels like. You WANT the thing, crave the thing. The thing is so delicious and feels soooo good and leaves you excited and giddy. But at the same time you know the thing is dangerous and will most likely hurt you. And that’s on top of causing you to fuck up your world.
This is exactly how i feel right now☝️ i know i need to walk away and not look back. But it is so incredibly hard to find someone who. excites the mind with intelligence, and depth like he does. *sigh* but his plate is full and i know im only going to get hurt 😢
Nobody’s lives just fit together. Fitting together is something you work at. It’s something you make happen – because you love each other.
Rainbow Rowell, Landline
(via thelovejournals)
Compromise (not sacrifice).
And if you get joy from figuring out how you can fit together, that’s a good sign.
(via polythought)
Im last on his list
Tell me either a happy poly moment you’ve had, or a poly wish/dream you have for the future
-take a trip to the academy of science in sf enjoy the planetarium and stay the night in SF. Spending solo time together 😕
Edit>Mines suposed to come true next week
The realist in me understands whole heartedly
The mushy girl in me hates it because i want to see ya.

